Respect+(October)

October's theme is Respect.

**Do Unto Otters: A Book about Manners** by Laurie Keller

In preparing for his new otter neighbors, Mr. Rabbit examines the meaning of "treat others as you would like others to treat you" (or, in this case, otters). This is a very amusing look at various manners and behaviors that can be viewed under the scope of respecting others. Due to the sophistication of some of the jokes, it would probably be most appropriate for third grade and up.




 * Respect and Take Care of Things** by Cheri Meiners

Simple text discusses a variety of school and home situations involving respect for others, respect for the environment, and respect for oneself. Most appropriate for kindergarten and maybe first grade.

**Chrysanthemum** by Kevin Henkes

A great book to start off the school year, Chrysanthemum is about a young mouse who is very proud of her unusual name until she starts school. There, the other children tease her relentlessly while her self-esteem plunges. Finally, she meets a pregnant teacher with an equally unusual name who tells her she loves the name Chrysanthemum and plans to use it for her own baby. This book could be used to discuss the importance of respecting everyone's differences and individuality.




 * The Sandwich Swap** by Queen Rania Al Abdullah and KellyDiPucchio

In a story of tolerance and acceptance set in the school lunch room, two friends from different backgrounds suddenly insult each others' sandwich choices (one brings peanut butter and jelly and the other brings hummus). Their insults get personal and even lead to a full-scale food fight. Their shame leads them to try the other person's sandwich and ultimately to an international class potluck event.

**Show Some Respect** by Anastasia Suen

Jack feels it is unfair that he has to help clean up the classroom and wait for the custodian to clean the gym before basketball practice. His friend Isaiah tries to reason with him, but Jack is difficult to convince. This book is kind of stiff and didactic, but perhaps could inspire class discussion around similar situations.


 * Hands Off, Harry** by Rosemary Wells

In this first installment in a new series, Harry has a problem with personal space and respecting his classmates. Miss Harmony's solution might be a bit far-fetched, but her efforts to get Harry to realize the impact of his behavior will probably seem familiar. This title is obviously geared toward kindergarten.

**Time to Say Please!** by Mo Willems

**Everyone Matters: A First Look at Respect for Others** by Pat Thomas

This is a non-fiction title that presents respect for oneself and for others in a straightforward, didactic style. There is no plot, instead the book presents the concept of respect and various situations where respect comes into play. The emphasis is on equality of treatment and appreciating others.